In the long and storied history of the F.A.N. forum there have been threads that have taken a life of their own just because of how strange, outlandish and hilarious they are. Among them are the Should this cause the girl to stop speaking to me? thread started by realtalk on April 26, 2011.
It all began when realtalk made a post basically saying that he had been dumped and was asking other people on the forum if he it was his fault. After a few people replied saying that being dumped and it sucks realtalk was in denial claiming the relationship was still alive even though he already posted that it was was dead in the water. Predictably, and deservedly so, realtalk was made fun of and then it was locked.
However, realtalk started another thread, Spyed on my girl, to continue discussing being dumped and no longer being in a relationship but being delusional believing that he was and spied on his ex still claiming they were together in this thread he admits to spying on the young lady using a dummy account on Facebook taking his level of creepiness up fifty notches. Once again people gave him grief and Kash locked the thread to spare the guy some humiliation.
Undeterred, immediately after the Spyed on my girl thread was locked realtalk made another thread called A question for the so-called men of this forum on April 27. This one only lasted two pages because being locked.
On May 7 once again realtalk made another thread about the same subject and was once again in denial and was made fun of and rightfully so. In this thread realtalk expressed being creeped out by an Asian guy with braided hair who rode a train with him and the girl he was not in a relationship with but claimed to be. This is quite an accomplishment seeing as realtalk spied on his his ex using a fake Facebook account. Realtalk claimed to have knowledge about the intentions of the Asian guy as well and came off as a pathetic individual with no social skills at all.
The Should this cause the girl to stop speaking to me? thread is archived at the F.A.N. forum and can be read here. The Spyed on my girl thread is also archived and can be read here. The A question for the so-called men of the forum thread can be read here and is also in the archives. Finally, the dealing with co-worker break up thread is archived at the F.A.N. forum and can be read here.
Additionally, if anyone has any requests for the “A look back at the threads of the F.A.N. forum” columns feel free to send me a private message at the F.A.N. forum.